Saturday 2 April 2011
Tuesday 29 March 2011
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Prof Arshad Javed Thanks His Family And Friends
Shukriya
Mein apney muhatrem dost janab professor
Dr. Khalil Ahmed ka bey hudd shukar guzar hun jinhon ney muswaddey ka ek ek lafz parha aur apney mufeed mashwarey sey nawaza.
Pyarey dost janab professor Dr. Akhter Qureshi sabiq sadar shoba nafsiyat GC university Lahore ka mamnoon hun jinhon ney iss kitab kay liye mufeed ma'aloomaat diin, jo iss kitab ka hissa banii'n.
Ma'aroof column nigar, adeeb aur mukhlis dost janab Akhter Abbas ka bey hudd shukriya jinhon ney na sirf mufeed mashwarey diye bul kay meri hosla afzaee kii. Un ki hosla afzaee kay baghaer iss tarah ki kitaab likhna mushkil amar tha.
Lieutenant cournel Muhammad Rafeeq ka mamnoon hun, jin ki dosti merey liye sukoon aur taqwiyat ka baa'iss hai jo meri tehreeron ka naqidaana ja'eza ley kar meri rehnuma'ee aur hosla afzaee kartey hain.
Bey hudd mukhlis american dost janab AbdulHaleem Khan aur bhateejey Hafiz Ishtiaque Nazeer (London) ka khas tor per shukar guzar hun jinhon ney iss mozou kay hawaley sey mufeed aur taaza tareen kutub bhijwa'een jinn sey merey ilm mein bohut izafa hua.
Apney shagird doston mahir-e-nafsiyat janab Zahid Hameed (Islamabad) aur mahir-e-mafsiyat professor Dr. Syed Sabir Hussain Shah (Gujrat) ka, jinn per mujhey fakhar hai, khas tor per mamnoon hun jinho'n ney mujhey mufeed ma'aloomaat faraham kiin.
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Books By Prof Arshad Javed
Bohut achey dost janab Syed Safdar Ali Naqvi sabiq sadar shoba urdu FC college Lahore ka shukar guzar hun jinhon ney muswaddey ki nok palak durust ki.
Muawin e khusoosi janab Muhammad Irshad sahib ka mamnoon hun jin ki wajah sey merey ahem kaam bohut aasaan ho jatey hain.
Janab Asif Mahmood Rana sahab ka bey hudd shukriya, jinhon ney bohut kam waqt mein kitaab ki composing mukammal ki jis ki wajah sey kitab ki isha'at mein taakheer na hui.
Mein apney nawason aur nawasiyon ka bey hudd shukar guzar hun, jo mera dil behlaney kay liye humarey haan aatey hain, khusoosan jab woh mujh sey jhappi daaltey hain to meri saari thakan duur ho jati hai.
Biwi! Mein aap ka khaas tor per mamnoon hun kay aap ko meri kitabo'n ka yeh mozou pasand nahin, magar iss kay bawajood aap ney iss ilmi kaam mein na sirf rukawat nahin daali bul kay bharpoor ta'awwun kar kay mujhey zehni sukoon muhayya kya jis ki wajah sey mein ek saal mein teen ahem kutub:
1. "Sex Education____________sab kay liye"
2. "Azdawaji Khushyan__khawateen kay liye"
3. "Azdawaji Khushyan____mardon kay liye"
likhney mein kaamyaab hua.
Bohut achey dost janab Syed Safdar Ali Naqvi sabiq sadar shoba urdu FC college Lahore ka shukar guzar hun jinhon ney muswaddey ki nok palak durust ki.
Muawin e khusoosi janab Muhammad Irshad sahib ka mamnoon hun jin ki wajah sey merey ahem kaam bohut aasaan ho jatey hain.
Janab Asif Mahmood Rana sahab ka bey hudd shukriya, jinhon ney bohut kam waqt mein kitaab ki composing mukammal ki jis ki wajah sey kitab ki isha'at mein taakheer na hui.
Mein apney nawason aur nawasiyon ka bey hudd shukar guzar hun, jo mera dil behlaney kay liye humarey haan aatey hain, khusoosan jab woh mujh sey jhappi daaltey hain to meri saari thakan duur ho jati hai.
Biwi! Mein aap ka khaas tor per mamnoon hun kay aap ko meri kitabo'n ka yeh mozou pasand nahin, magar iss kay bawajood aap ney iss ilmi kaam mein na sirf rukawat nahin daali bul kay bharpoor ta'awwun kar kay mujhey zehni sukoon muhayya kya jis ki wajah sey mein ek saal mein teen ahem kutub:
1. "Sex Education____________sab kay liye"
2. "Azdawaji Khushyan__khawateen kay liye"
3. "Azdawaji Khushyan____mardon kay liye"
likhney mein kaamyaab hua.
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Marital Satisfaction - Azdawaji Lazzat Aur Sukoon
Aaj ki taraqqi yaafta aqwaam ney mehnat ki azmat ko nuqta e urooj per pohncha diya hai. Inn kay afraad ko 10 hazar naakamiyan bhi mayoos nahin kartiin. Edison bulb banatey waqt 10 hazar baar naakam hua magar uss ney haar maanney sey inkaar kar diya aur apni koshish jari rakhi hutta kay bulb bananey mein kaamyaab ho gaya. Doosri taraf unhon ney azdawaji zindagi ko ek art bana diya. Iss silsiley mein aisey aisey goshey bey naqaab kiye kay aqal haeraan reh jati hai. Hum ajeeb qoum hain kay na to bharpoor andaz sey kaam kartey hain aur na hi Allah Ta'ala ki paeda karda ja'ez lazzaton sey bharpoor tareeqey sey lutfandoz hotey hain. Hum yeh donon kaam routine mein kartey hain. Humein na kaam karna aata hai aur na hi zindagi sey lutf andoz hona.
Quran majeed mein irshad hai kay:
"Phir azdawaji zindagi ka lutf tum inn sey uthao" (Al Nisa 24)
Azdawaji lazzat aur sukoon hasil karney kay liye ilm ki zaroorat hai budqismati sey hum mein sey 90 % sey bhi za'ed mard azdawaji zindagi kay hawaley sey zaroori ma'aloomaat nahin rakhtey. Humney chotey paemaaney per ek survey kya. Iss mein shaadi shuda logon sey ek sawal poocha gaya kay aaya unko ilm hai kay mubashrat (intercourse) ki exact jagah kahan hai. Yaqeen karein kay kisi ek fard ko bhi iska ilm na tha. Agarcha woh saal ha saal sey mubashrat kar rahey hain. Woh yeh saara kaam andaazey sey kar rahey hain. Ilm ki kami ki wajah sey mard hazraat ki aksaryat apni biwiyon ko jinsi lehaz sey mutmaen karney mein naakaam rehti hai.
Aaj ki taraqqi yaafta aqwaam ney mehnat ki azmat ko nuqta e urooj per pohncha diya hai. Inn kay afraad ko 10 hazar naakamiyan bhi mayoos nahin kartiin. Edison bulb banatey waqt 10 hazar baar naakam hua magar uss ney haar maanney sey inkaar kar diya aur apni koshish jari rakhi hutta kay bulb bananey mein kaamyaab ho gaya. Doosri taraf unhon ney azdawaji zindagi ko ek art bana diya. Iss silsiley mein aisey aisey goshey bey naqaab kiye kay aqal haeraan reh jati hai. Hum ajeeb qoum hain kay na to bharpoor andaz sey kaam kartey hain aur na hi Allah Ta'ala ki paeda karda ja'ez lazzaton sey bharpoor tareeqey sey lutfandoz hotey hain. Hum yeh donon kaam routine mein kartey hain. Humein na kaam karna aata hai aur na hi zindagi sey lutf andoz hona.
Quran majeed mein irshad hai kay:
"Phir azdawaji zindagi ka lutf tum inn sey uthao" (Al Nisa 24)
Azdawaji lazzat aur sukoon hasil karney kay liye ilm ki zaroorat hai budqismati sey hum mein sey 90 % sey bhi za'ed mard azdawaji zindagi kay hawaley sey zaroori ma'aloomaat nahin rakhtey. Humney chotey paemaaney per ek survey kya. Iss mein shaadi shuda logon sey ek sawal poocha gaya kay aaya unko ilm hai kay mubashrat (intercourse) ki exact jagah kahan hai. Yaqeen karein kay kisi ek fard ko bhi iska ilm na tha. Agarcha woh saal ha saal sey mubashrat kar rahey hain. Woh yeh saara kaam andaazey sey kar rahey hain. Ilm ki kami ki wajah sey mard hazraat ki aksaryat apni biwiyon ko jinsi lehaz sey mutmaen karney mein naakaam rehti hai.
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Lack Of Sex Education
jis ki wajah sey biwiyan azdawaji zindagi mein fa'aal kirdaar ada nahin kartiin jab kay kuch adum itmenan ki wajah sey jinsi beyrahrawi ka shikar ho jati hain kyun kay unhein har baar jinsi sukoon kay husool mein naakami hoti hai. Bohut si aurtein saari zindagi jinsi lazzat sey mehroom rehti hain. Iss ki bari wajah ilm ki kami hai, kyun kay mardon ki aksaryat ko ilm hi nahin kay biwi ko kis tarah jinsi sukoon muhayya karna hai. Humarey haan urdu mein iss hawaley sey ek do meyari kutub kay elawa baqi aksaryat kharafaat sey bhari hain. Iss silsiley mein mazhabi nuqta e nigaah sey kafi achi kutub likhi gaee hain magar inn kutub mein sex ka hissa na honey kay baraber hai, jis ki wajah sey khawateen o hazraat ko azdawaji ta'alluqaat kay hawaley sey meyari maaloomaat nahin miltiin. Iss hawaley sey haal hi mein ek bohut achi kitab parhney ka moqa mila magar sex kay hawaley sey iss musannif ko bhi ilm na tha kay mubashrat kahan ki jati hai yani faraj (vagina) kahan waqa'e hai.
20 saal sey clinic mein logon kay azdawaji masail ko hal kartey huey ek din khayal aaya kay iss hawaley sey logon ko zaroori ta'aleem dii jaey taakay woh khushgawar zindagi basar kar sakein. Chunancha humney Lahore aur Lahore sey baher ek seminar kay zaryaey ta'aleem ka ek silsila shuru kya jis mein mukhtalif shehron sey mard hazraat shamil hotey thay. Mulk bhar mein apni nauiyat kay iss wahid seminar ney shurka'a ko azdawaji khushyan deney mein bharpoor kirdar ada kya. Shurka'a ka khayal tha kay Pakistan bhar sey log iss seminar sey mustafeed nahin ho saktey, le'haza inn ma'aloomaat ko kitab ki shakal mein paesh kya jaey. Chunancha seminar ka yeh silsila aarzi tor per rok kar iss mozou per mazeed muta'alla aur tehqeeq ki gaee. Ab yeh saari ma'aloomaat aap ki khidmat mein paesh hain.
jis ki wajah sey biwiyan azdawaji zindagi mein fa'aal kirdaar ada nahin kartiin jab kay kuch adum itmenan ki wajah sey jinsi beyrahrawi ka shikar ho jati hain kyun kay unhein har baar jinsi sukoon kay husool mein naakami hoti hai. Bohut si aurtein saari zindagi jinsi lazzat sey mehroom rehti hain. Iss ki bari wajah ilm ki kami hai, kyun kay mardon ki aksaryat ko ilm hi nahin kay biwi ko kis tarah jinsi sukoon muhayya karna hai. Humarey haan urdu mein iss hawaley sey ek do meyari kutub kay elawa baqi aksaryat kharafaat sey bhari hain. Iss silsiley mein mazhabi nuqta e nigaah sey kafi achi kutub likhi gaee hain magar inn kutub mein sex ka hissa na honey kay baraber hai, jis ki wajah sey khawateen o hazraat ko azdawaji ta'alluqaat kay hawaley sey meyari maaloomaat nahin miltiin. Iss hawaley sey haal hi mein ek bohut achi kitab parhney ka moqa mila magar sex kay hawaley sey iss musannif ko bhi ilm na tha kay mubashrat kahan ki jati hai yani faraj (vagina) kahan waqa'e hai.
20 saal sey clinic mein logon kay azdawaji masail ko hal kartey huey ek din khayal aaya kay iss hawaley sey logon ko zaroori ta'aleem dii jaey taakay woh khushgawar zindagi basar kar sakein. Chunancha humney Lahore aur Lahore sey baher ek seminar kay zaryaey ta'aleem ka ek silsila shuru kya jis mein mukhtalif shehron sey mard hazraat shamil hotey thay. Mulk bhar mein apni nauiyat kay iss wahid seminar ney shurka'a ko azdawaji khushyan deney mein bharpoor kirdar ada kya. Shurka'a ka khayal tha kay Pakistan bhar sey log iss seminar sey mustafeed nahin ho saktey, le'haza inn ma'aloomaat ko kitab ki shakal mein paesh kya jaey. Chunancha seminar ka yeh silsila aarzi tor per rok kar iss mozou per mazeed muta'alla aur tehqeeq ki gaee. Ab yeh saari ma'aloomaat aap ki khidmat mein paesh hain.
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Male Sexual Problems
Agarcha bunyadi tor per yeh kitaab mard hazraat kay liye hai magar khawateen kay liye bhi iss ka muta'alla itna hi zaroori hai taa'kay woh mardon ki zarooriyaat aur masail sey aagaah ho sakein. Iss kay elawa inn ko ilm ho sakey kay in kay khawand unhein kon kon si khushyan kis tarah dey saktey hain taa kay woh gaahey ba gaahey apni pasand ki azdwajii khushyan hasil kar sakein. Isi tarah mardon kay liye humari kitab "Azdwajii Khushyan___Khawateen Kay Liye" ka muta'alla bey hudd mufeed sabit ho sakta hai taakay unko ilm ho kay biwiyan unhein kon si lazzat muhayya kar sakti hain. Iss tarah mardon ko yeh ilm bhi hasil hoga kay unki biwiyan unn kay jinsi masail kay hal mein kis tarah unki madad kar sakti hain. Iss kay elawa gharelu zindagi ko khushgawar bananey kay liye donon ka kirdaar alaehda alaehda hai jab mian biwi donon kutub parh leingey to unko ma'aloom ho jaey ga kay khushgawar gharelu zindagi mein unn ka aur unn kay saathi ka kya kirdaar hai. Bharpoor azdwajii zindagi kay liye humari kitab "Sex Education_________Sab Kay Liye" iss mozou per asal bunyaadi kitaab hai, iss liye iss kitab ka muta'alla bhi bey hudd mufeed sabit hoga.
"Azdwajii Khushyan_____Mardon Kay Liye" ek amali kitaab hai, agar iss per poori tarah amal kya jaey to inshaAllah aap ki azdwajii aur gharelu zindagi khushyon sey bhar jaey gi aur aap ka ghar jannat ka namoona ban jaey ga. Ahl-e-ilm ka khayal hai kay yeh teenon kutub 1."Sex Education______sab kay liye", 2. "Azdwajii Khushyan___khawateen kay liye", aur 3. "Azdwajii Khushyan_____mardon kay liye" Pakistani mua'ashirey mein azdwajii zindagi mein ek inquilaab ki naqeeb sabit hongi
Agarcha bunyadi tor per yeh kitaab mard hazraat kay liye hai magar khawateen kay liye bhi iss ka muta'alla itna hi zaroori hai taa'kay woh mardon ki zarooriyaat aur masail sey aagaah ho sakein. Iss kay elawa inn ko ilm ho sakey kay in kay khawand unhein kon kon si khushyan kis tarah dey saktey hain taa kay woh gaahey ba gaahey apni pasand ki azdwajii khushyan hasil kar sakein. Isi tarah mardon kay liye humari kitab "Azdwajii Khushyan___Khawateen Kay Liye" ka muta'alla bey hudd mufeed sabit ho sakta hai taakay unko ilm ho kay biwiyan unhein kon si lazzat muhayya kar sakti hain. Iss tarah mardon ko yeh ilm bhi hasil hoga kay unki biwiyan unn kay jinsi masail kay hal mein kis tarah unki madad kar sakti hain. Iss kay elawa gharelu zindagi ko khushgawar bananey kay liye donon ka kirdaar alaehda alaehda hai jab mian biwi donon kutub parh leingey to unko ma'aloom ho jaey ga kay khushgawar gharelu zindagi mein unn ka aur unn kay saathi ka kya kirdaar hai. Bharpoor azdwajii zindagi kay liye humari kitab "Sex Education_________Sab Kay Liye" iss mozou per asal bunyaadi kitaab hai, iss liye iss kitab ka muta'alla bhi bey hudd mufeed sabit hoga.
"Azdwajii Khushyan_____Mardon Kay Liye" ek amali kitaab hai, agar iss per poori tarah amal kya jaey to inshaAllah aap ki azdwajii aur gharelu zindagi khushyon sey bhar jaey gi aur aap ka ghar jannat ka namoona ban jaey ga. Ahl-e-ilm ka khayal hai kay yeh teenon kutub 1."Sex Education______sab kay liye", 2. "Azdwajii Khushyan___khawateen kay liye", aur 3. "Azdwajii Khushyan_____mardon kay liye" Pakistani mua'ashirey mein azdwajii zindagi mein ek inquilaab ki naqeeb sabit hongi
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Pleasures of Marital Life - Bharpoor Azdwaji Khushyan
kitaab sey bharpoor faeda uthaney kay liye pehley ek baar aap isey sarsari parh lein, aur apney pasandeeda ahem maqamaat kay neechey nishan laga lijiey, phir nishan zada ahem nukaat ko dobara parh lein. Bharpoor azdwaji lutf kay liye "Foreplay", "Mubaashirat Kay Tariqey" aur "Bharpoor Azdawaji Khushyan" waley hissey ko baghor parhein. Ek ek tariqey ki achi tarah mushq karein aur azdwajii zindagi sey bharpoor lutf uthaein.
Ba'az ahem cheezon ki (khusoosan mubaashirat kay tariqon) wazahat kay liye tasaweer aur khako'n ki zaroorat hai, kyun kay ek tasweer hazar alfaz kay baraber hoti hai, magar humney unhein kitaab mein shamil karna munasib nahib samjha. Ta'hum agar aap ko zaroorat ho to aap yeh khaakey rs.100 ka money order bhijwa kar barah e raast humsey hasil kar saktey hain.
kitaab sey bharpoor faeda uthaney kay liye pehley ek baar aap isey sarsari parh lein, aur apney pasandeeda ahem maqamaat kay neechey nishan laga lijiey, phir nishan zada ahem nukaat ko dobara parh lein. Bharpoor azdwaji lutf kay liye "Foreplay", "Mubaashirat Kay Tariqey" aur "Bharpoor Azdawaji Khushyan" waley hissey ko baghor parhein. Ek ek tariqey ki achi tarah mushq karein aur azdwajii zindagi sey bharpoor lutf uthaein.
Ba'az ahem cheezon ki (khusoosan mubaashirat kay tariqon) wazahat kay liye tasaweer aur khako'n ki zaroorat hai, kyun kay ek tasweer hazar alfaz kay baraber hoti hai, magar humney unhein kitaab mein shamil karna munasib nahib samjha. Ta'hum agar aap ko zaroorat ho to aap yeh khaakey rs.100 ka money order bhijwa kar barah e raast humsey hasil kar saktey hain.
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Marital Life Tips - Azdwaji Khushyon Kay Hawaley Sey Tips
Jaisa kay guzishta safhaat mein arz kar chuka hun kay meri 'biwi' ko mera iss mozou per likhna pasand nahin chunancha ek din farmaney lagii'n kay 'ab aap koi aisi cheez bhi likhein jisey hum logon ko bata sakein' chunancha mojooda kitab iss mozou per meri aakhri kitaab hai. Ab unki farma'esh per meiney roznama 'Jinah' mein 'Kaamyabi' kay unwaan sey column likhney ka silsila shuru kya hai. 'Kaamyaabi' mera pasandeeda mozou hai. Mein guzishta 30 saal sey iss mozou per parh aur ghor o fikr kar raha hun. Kaamyabi kay chund usool hain. Har kaamyab insaan inhi usoolon per shaoori ya ghaer shaoori tor per amal kar kay kaamyabi hasil karta hai. Jab aap inn usoolon sey aagaah ho jatey hain to saalon ka safar maheenon mein taey kar letey hain. Meri dili khwahish hai kay mein Pakistani awam khusoosan naee nasal ko inn usoolon sey aagaah karun, naee nasal taraqqi karey gi to Pakistan taraqqi karey ga. Iss jazbey kay tehet column ka yeh silsila shuru kya hai iss kay elawa iss mozou per hum ek roza free seminar bhi muna'aqqid kartey hain.
Kitaab kay hawaley sey apni qeemti ra'ey dena na bhooliey, khut likhiey, paeghaam (sms) bhejiey, phone kijiey, mulaqaat bhi kar saktey hain, mein aap ka bey hudd mashkoor honga. Agar aap kay paas azdwajii khushyon kay hawaley sey koi tips hain to humein zaroor muttala'a farmaein, ta'kay agar woh mufeed paey gaey to inn ko bhi kitaab ka hissa banaya ja sakey.
Jaisa kay guzishta safhaat mein arz kar chuka hun kay meri 'biwi' ko mera iss mozou per likhna pasand nahin chunancha ek din farmaney lagii'n kay 'ab aap koi aisi cheez bhi likhein jisey hum logon ko bata sakein' chunancha mojooda kitab iss mozou per meri aakhri kitaab hai. Ab unki farma'esh per meiney roznama 'Jinah' mein 'Kaamyabi' kay unwaan sey column likhney ka silsila shuru kya hai. 'Kaamyaabi' mera pasandeeda mozou hai. Mein guzishta 30 saal sey iss mozou per parh aur ghor o fikr kar raha hun. Kaamyabi kay chund usool hain. Har kaamyab insaan inhi usoolon per shaoori ya ghaer shaoori tor per amal kar kay kaamyabi hasil karta hai. Jab aap inn usoolon sey aagaah ho jatey hain to saalon ka safar maheenon mein taey kar letey hain. Meri dili khwahish hai kay mein Pakistani awam khusoosan naee nasal ko inn usoolon sey aagaah karun, naee nasal taraqqi karey gi to Pakistan taraqqi karey ga. Iss jazbey kay tehet column ka yeh silsila shuru kya hai iss kay elawa iss mozou per hum ek roza free seminar bhi muna'aqqid kartey hain.
Kitaab kay hawaley sey apni qeemti ra'ey dena na bhooliey, khut likhiey, paeghaam (sms) bhejiey, phone kijiey, mulaqaat bhi kar saktey hain, mein aap ka bey hudd mashkoor honga. Agar aap kay paas azdwajii khushyon kay hawaley sey koi tips hain to humein zaroor muttala'a farmaein, ta'kay agar woh mufeed paey gaey to inn ko bhi kitaab ka hissa banaya ja sakey.
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Sexual Misconceptions - Nocturnal Ejaculation
Ahem Jinsi Mughalitey
Important Misconceptions About Sex
Humarey mu'aashrey mein sex kay hawaley sey beyshumar ghalat fehmiyan paee jati hain, jin ki wajah sey naujawan nasal bohut sey jinsi masail (sexual problems) ka shikar hai. Hum ney apni book "Sex Education----Sab Kay Liye" mein 100 kay qareeb jinsi mughalton ki asal haqeeqat tafseel kay sath beyan ki hai. Ahl e lim ka khayal hai kay har naujawan ko shadi sey pehley inn sey aagah hona zarori hai ta kay woh azdawaji zindagi sey bharpoor lutf andoz ho sakey. Iss book mein inn tamam mughalton ka tafseeli zikar mumkin nahi behter hai kay mazeed maloomat kay liye humari book "Sex Education---Sab Kay Liye" ka muta'alla kar liya jaey ta hum baaz ahem ghalat fehmiyon ka mukhtasir zikar kiya jata hai.
1. Ehtelam: (Nocturnal Ejaculation)
Iss sey muraad sotey huey khwab ya khwab kay baghair peeshab kay rastay mani(semen) ka ikhraj hai. Jin afrad ko mubashrat (intercourse) ya khud lazzati (masturbation) ka kasrat sai moqa nahi milta unko ehtelam ho jata hai. Yeh amal 8,10 saal ki umar sey shuru ho sakta hai. Yeh koi jinsi bemari nahi bul kay ek normal aur sehat mand uzwiati (organic) amal ya kaifiyat hai, jis kay barey mein pareshan honey ki zaroorat nahi. Yeh rozana ho sakta hai bul kay aik hi raat mein aik sey ziyada bar bhi.
Ahem Jinsi Mughalitey
Important Misconceptions About Sex
Humarey mu'aashrey mein sex kay hawaley sey beyshumar ghalat fehmiyan paee jati hain, jin ki wajah sey naujawan nasal bohut sey jinsi masail (sexual problems) ka shikar hai. Hum ney apni book "Sex Education----Sab Kay Liye" mein 100 kay qareeb jinsi mughalton ki asal haqeeqat tafseel kay sath beyan ki hai. Ahl e lim ka khayal hai kay har naujawan ko shadi sey pehley inn sey aagah hona zarori hai ta kay woh azdawaji zindagi sey bharpoor lutf andoz ho sakey. Iss book mein inn tamam mughalton ka tafseeli zikar mumkin nahi behter hai kay mazeed maloomat kay liye humari book "Sex Education---Sab Kay Liye" ka muta'alla kar liya jaey ta hum baaz ahem ghalat fehmiyon ka mukhtasir zikar kiya jata hai.
1. Ehtelam: (Nocturnal Ejaculation)
Iss sey muraad sotey huey khwab ya khwab kay baghair peeshab kay rastay mani(semen) ka ikhraj hai. Jin afrad ko mubashrat (intercourse) ya khud lazzati (masturbation) ka kasrat sai moqa nahi milta unko ehtelam ho jata hai. Yeh amal 8,10 saal ki umar sey shuru ho sakta hai. Yeh koi jinsi bemari nahi bul kay ek normal aur sehat mand uzwiati (organic) amal ya kaifiyat hai, jis kay barey mein pareshan honey ki zaroorat nahi. Yeh rozana ho sakta hai bul kay aik hi raat mein aik sey ziyada bar bhi.
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Masturbation - Khud lazzati - Musht zani
yeh kitna hi kiyu na ho iss kay insaani sehat per koi burey asraat nahi partey.
2. Khud lazzati - Musht zani (Masturbation)
Khud lazzati sey muraad mubashrat aur ehtelam kay elawa kisi doosrey tareeqey sey mani (semen) ka ikhraj hai. Khud lazzati ka sab sey ahem zariya musht zani yani hath sey semen ka ikhraj hai. Hamarey haan sab sey zyada ghalat fehmiyan isi hawaley sey paee jati hain. Ek fard iss amal ko haftey mein 1 ya 2 bar karleta hai. Merey ba'az client rozana aur ba'az ek din mein 6,7 bar tak kar letey hain. Mera ek shadi shuda client 24 ghanto'n mein 15 dafa tak karleta tha, iss ney aisa kaee bar kiya, yani woh jagtey mein taqreeban har ghantey mein ek bar karleta tha. Woh abhi tak na sirf zinda, hatta katta bul kay kaee bachon ka baap hai.
Mukhtalif muhaqqaqeen kay mutabiq 95% sey 98% mard iss aadat ka shikar hain. Bohut sey bachey 10 saal ki umar sey pehley hi musht zani shuru kar detey hain. Agarcha khud lazzati ka shikar aisai naujawan hotey hain jin ki abhi shadi nahi hui hoti, magar jadeed research sey ma'aloom hua hai kai shadi shuda mard bhi aisa kartey hain. Mashoor American muhaqqiq Kinsey kay survey kay mutabiq America mein 70% shadi shuda graduate saal mein taqreeban 24 bar musht zani karletey hain. Yani ek maah mein 2 baar naujawano kay elawa 70 saala boorhey bhi musht zani kartey hain.
yeh kitna hi kiyu na ho iss kay insaani sehat per koi burey asraat nahi partey.
2. Khud lazzati - Musht zani (Masturbation)
Khud lazzati sey muraad mubashrat aur ehtelam kay elawa kisi doosrey tareeqey sey mani (semen) ka ikhraj hai. Khud lazzati ka sab sey ahem zariya musht zani yani hath sey semen ka ikhraj hai. Hamarey haan sab sey zyada ghalat fehmiyan isi hawaley sey paee jati hain. Ek fard iss amal ko haftey mein 1 ya 2 bar karleta hai. Merey ba'az client rozana aur ba'az ek din mein 6,7 bar tak kar letey hain. Mera ek shadi shuda client 24 ghanto'n mein 15 dafa tak karleta tha, iss ney aisa kaee bar kiya, yani woh jagtey mein taqreeban har ghantey mein ek bar karleta tha. Woh abhi tak na sirf zinda, hatta katta bul kay kaee bachon ka baap hai.
Mukhtalif muhaqqaqeen kay mutabiq 95% sey 98% mard iss aadat ka shikar hain. Bohut sey bachey 10 saal ki umar sey pehley hi musht zani shuru kar detey hain. Agarcha khud lazzati ka shikar aisai naujawan hotey hain jin ki abhi shadi nahi hui hoti, magar jadeed research sey ma'aloom hua hai kai shadi shuda mard bhi aisa kartey hain. Mashoor American muhaqqiq Kinsey kay survey kay mutabiq America mein 70% shadi shuda graduate saal mein taqreeban 24 bar musht zani karletey hain. Yani ek maah mein 2 baar naujawano kay elawa 70 saala boorhey bhi musht zani kartey hain.
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